Chapter 5- Living Below Your Means: The Ticket to Financial Freedom

 

Millions mindlessly swipe credit cards or tap smartphone buy buttons with little conception of affordability. Keeping up with the Joneses’ rat race breeds financial fatigue across Middle America, as frivolous wants get satisfied before genuine needs. But you can jump off this stressful hamster wheel by purposefully living below your means to achieve financial freedom.

Arm yourself with perspective, create tradeoff awareness, foster contentment and discover what genuinely matters by rethinking spending.

Assess True Needs vs Wants

Catalog actual monthly costs for needs like housing, utilities, groceries, transportation, insurance payments, and minimum debt payments. Use average figures over the last three months to ensure accuracy. Capture automatically flowing expenses like subscriptions, memberships, and habitual Starbucks runs, tallying up often overlooked spending leakage.

Next comes the soul-searching. Could you temporarily do without the gym membership or Netflix binge watching? What tradeoffs make you uncomfortable? The goal isn’t depriving yourself forever but rather consciously spending on items delivering value while reducing automatic or emotional purchases that provide little lasting joy.

Get creative hunting for alternate solutions, like cycling outdoors substituting for spin classes or enjoying free library DVDs instead of movie theaters. Experiment with lifestyle tweaks that satiate similar desires for less money without perceived sacrifice. Soon, positive realisations emerge that more purposeful spending funds the future rather than fleeting happiness fixes.

Adopt a Minimalist Mindset

Minimalism centres only on owning items that deliver utility, joy, and purpose while removing meaningless clutter. This mindset shift dramatically reshapes spending and consumerism. According to UCLA studies, Americans hang onto an average of 300,000 items per household. Yet we actively use just 20-30% of our possessions, cramming overstuffed drawers, bursting closets, and congested garages. Critically evaluate whether items serve current and future happiness or mainly collect dust.

When pondering new purchases, pause and question if this item aligns with your goals and values or simply scratches a temporary itch. Create mandatory waiting periods for more significant purchases, allowing emotion to subside. Unsubscribe from marketing emails to eliminate temptation and impulse triggers. Scrutinise why certain purchases call so loudly – what voids or dissatisfaction do they attempt to fill? Identify the roots behind those needs first.

Minimalism creates space for what deeply matters rather than continually chasing happiness through consumption alone. By consciously questioning spending, you reallocate funds towards financial priorities like paying off debt rapidly, maximising retirement investments, or sparking joy better than fabricated wants.

Practice Intentional, Value-Based Spending

Budgets traditionally limit overspending across generic categories like food, clothing or utilities, lumping values and needs together. But you can take budgeting further through value-based spending – aligning purchases with purpose rather than arbitrary caps.

Identify your core values like faith, family time, health, growth, adventure or community. Outline associated joys like attending religious services, travelling to see relatives, training for marathons, taking university courses, planning excursions abroad, or donating and volunteering. Then, consciously direct surplus funds towards those value-based activities instead of spending more on stuff. For example, perhaps you invest in family memories, capturing precious but fleeting childhood moments by photographing kids rather than lavishing them with abundant toys soon discarded and forgotten.

Tithing commitments, enriched relationships, personalised development, and unforgettable adventures motivate and fulfil, unlike ephemeral things. Value-based spending nourishes the soul on a deeper level, with room for occasional frivolous fun, too. But assessing and realigning spending toward values and life priorities breeds lasting contentment now while enabling financial freedom later.

Foster Financial Mindfulness

All lastingly successful budgeters adopt mindfulness adjusting wayward habits sabotaging their money plans. Emotions and environment heavily sway spending if unaware. Retail therapy soothes bad days. Friends influence social pressure to overspend on occasion. Bulk store deals incite overpurchasing. Mindfulness counters overconsumption tendencies through:

  • Pausing before purchases and asking why you want this now
  • Sleeping on bigger expenditures to evaluate true need the next day
  • Removing browsing apps and avoiding stores if tempted by marketing
  • Unsubscribing from promotional emails sparks spending triggers
  • Finding happiness and meaning through alternate life priorities
  • Carrying only essential payment cards, leaving others safely at home

Mindful decisions neutralise unconscious desires bred by outside forces. You are training yourself to pause and evaluate why and how much crystallises authentic needs from passing wants. Small nudges create big overspending impacts over decades. But mindfully living below your means generates peace of mind now and financial freedom later.

The Journey Unlocks Prosperity

At first, limiting expenditures may create discomfort. Budgeting may feel restrictive. Saying no may challenge your self-image. The fear of missing out may heighten. But sticking through this initial resistance will reveal abundance on the other side. You’ll find a new appreciation for necessities, see your investments grow, and watch your debt balances rapidly shrink. This will open up the capacity for flexibility and meaning, and you’ll feel a sense of accomplishment and satisfaction in your financial progress.

While culture screams to show worth through materialism, quiet confidence comes from selling back to what matters. True wealth means freedom to pursue purpose unrestrained by money worries — a daily lightness only available by living below your means aligned with values. Allow this revelation to multiply your motivation towards lasting financial peace and contentment. Your future self will thank you.